Matters in Relationship

  At times to get loved is not a deal but to be loved. At times relationship lies in the responsiveness rescue of dying lover in the stream of love. At times being in a  relationship might hotter than den of hell. At times inability to get proportionate return despairs a relationship like a worker that does not get paid.

  Right from the infancy stage of any relationship is, to be loved remains a challenge for the boneless flesh (heart) of a lover; a situation whereby to  entrust your heart to a prospective worthy partner is a deal. Many out of stylish behavior and inconsiderate to emotional feeling of their potential partner lost a treasure, a gift that the  divine especially keeps for them. While, some is out of arrogance that 'this guy' is inferior, he is low to My standard.

  Thus, the survival of a relationship lies in the understanding of your potential partner, which kind of person s/he is, what her/his worldview looks like, his level of reasoning,  tolerance and temperament. The reason for this is the fact that some 'guys' are so flexible in nature in that he summoned courage, effort and measure the risk of not getting his heart crushed before expressing his feelings for you of which  you too have the same  feelings for him but out of pride you turn him down.

  One thing that most people in relationship neglects is an individual experience, your proposer experience is part and parcel of him because it influences his thinking and attitude therefore he lives by it. This is major factor that many relationships drowns by stream and never resuscitates again. Many 'guys' look for a serious partner because they don't want to cross the  boundary of their faith, personality and as well to maintain status quo of humanness.

This iamong other reasons is why some relationships went over. I bring this to you for it may guide you in making and maintaining a good relationship with your potential partner.

What do you also experienced as among the factor that break relationship and how do you think it can be corrected? We like to see your comment and we are ready to learn from you.

Till next edition, happy reading.